First of all, we are so sorry for your pain. And no, this is not your fault. What your husband has been doing is wrong, but you did not cause him to sin. We are all responsible for our own actions. Because of the deep emotional wound this sin causes, you will likely need spiritual […]
Even one lingering view is sin, of course, and sin needs to be confronted regardless. Addiction is defined various ways, but for our purposes, if the answer to any of the following questions is yes, you likely have a serious problem with this sin: Have you told yourself numerous times, “This is the last time […]
NO. According to studies or surveys compiled by Covenant Eyes: Among general public: “Today, 68% of young adult men and 18% of women use porn at least once every week. Another 17% of men and another 30% of women use porn 1-2 times per month. This means for 85% of young men and nearly half […]
I am sorry for the heart-breaking news you received from your boyfriend. It is never easy to hear that someone you like “likes” to look at other women in a sexual way. Let me offer one comment to your statement and two answers to your questions: Comment: Your boyfriend says he likes to look at […]
First of all, our hearts go out to you. Stumbling upon a betrayal of trust and fidelity is a painful experience, so we are praying for you and your husband. What should you do? The first step would be to gently and firmly confront him. Galatians 6 says, “If someone is caught in a sin, […]
What do I do now? For those reading this, you have the blessing of Conquerors Through Christ. He has let out his nasty little secret. His burden has been put down; he feels relief and asks for forgiveness. You just got dumped on. You are in shock, angry, in disbelief, and cut to the core. […]
Top 6 Reasons to Go Pro Vs. Porn Should you seek professional help? People often wonder if they are addicted to a certain behavior. The big question people often ask with addictions is “when is too much…too much?” Well, here are some signs indicating when an addiction to pornography might be beyond self-help. Should you […]