Speaking to your children about porn
Our Parent Support System equips you, not for “the talk”, but for an ongoing conversation from age 2 to 12 about God’s design for our bodies and, at the appropriate age, sex.
Our Middle School Lessons help you, or your child’s instructor, to go beyond “don’t lust” to learning to enjoy the blessings of gospel-driven self-control.
Our High School Curriculum can be used by your teen’s teacher or youth group leader to have positive discussions during this critical tine in their lives,
Frequently Asked Questions
You may be surprised to know that sex within marriage doesn’t cure pornography addiction. Those who entered marriage with a porn problem soon find that they still have a porn problem! Therefore, don’t allow the Devil to deceive into thinking this will fix itself if you get married. The time to act is now both for your own sake and the sake of your future spouse, if you do get married in the future. Finally, remember that the God who created you as a sexual being is able to sustain and strengthen you for purity, even if that means a life of celibacy like the Apostle Paul or Jesus himself.
Conquerors through Christ has produced a Parent Support System to assist and equip parents in teaching their children about God’s gift and design of sexuality. Conquerors through Christ also has Middle School Lessons and a High School Curriculum available.
We’ve had many people inquire about our logo. It’s rich in symbolism and we’d like people to understand the message we’re trying to convey. Here’s what the various elements are intended to communicate:
- The cross is featured prominently to signify the essential nature of Christ’s sacrificial death in our place, which not only washes us spotless in the sight of God (Isaiah 1:18), but gives us the motivation and power to fight against this sin with all our might (2 Corinthians 5:14,15).
- Using the aforementioned cross as the “T”, the blue and orange “Cs” form our acronym CTC.
- The bottom of the cross forms a point depicting the blade of a sword. This represents the Word of God, which we take up daily to fight against Satan, the world, and our own sinful flesh (Ephesians 6:17)
- That sword pierces through three “Xs”…xxx…need we say more?
Probably every age is a fine age to talk to your child about sexuality in age-appropriate ways. Talk to your two-year-old about privacy and differences between boys and girls. As they develop, you can continue teaching them about their body and later about the temptations and threats that exist in the world and can harm our bodies. Sex education is a process, not an event. You are not looking for a time to have one big awkward conversation. You are looking for many opportunities throughout your child’s life to advance the process of teaching them of God’s blessings and intentions for them and their bodies.
Resources to help you train your child to Resist satan’s lies and embrace godly sexuality
If you are looking for resources to help a teen or adult child escape from the addictive sin of porn use, view Friends or Family member page.